About two months ago i lost two of the most important people who have ever been in my life...
My mom & my grandpa
Now many of you know this already but i was raised by my grandparents. My mother always struggled with addiction issues and could never truly care for any of her kids... She tried, she really did but we were just better off in the hands of my grandparents... We always maintained a VERY close relationship with her as our mom... As you can imagine, it hurts because i lost my mom and my father in the same weeks time. This has been ONE of the most, well, has been THE most difficult thing i have ever had to go through and its killed me inside, even two months later.
With that being said, i went and contacted my doctor. He insisted i go talk to someone and get some grief counseling. I went and seen someone and after a few appointments, i honestly did not feel like it was helping so i quit seeing her.
I don't know if that was the smartest idea since i have been keeping my emotions bottled up so my kids can not see what i am going through. I thought my kids couldnt see it so i was doing ok! about two weeks ago i started having issues with my heart and my 3/6 murmur... i went to the doctor and he has sent me for testing. He thinks its from stress and anxiety so here we are waiting for the testing and going to the next level...
lets speed up a bit...
while i am dealing with this HUGE loss in my life, i am also dealing with a upcoming move. We move from Alaska to Colorado in just 3 WEEKS!! yes, talk about stress overload... but, i will manage and i will be ok... oh, and my husband is headed on a 9 month deployment come Jan of 2015....
so this is why i came back to blogging, as a outlet... somewhere to go to and talk about all the little details in life that are happening since talking to a person one on one did not help...
I know life always throws you obstacles and i will get through it, however, it don't make it any easier in the hallway....
My momma and her 3 children
My pops and Laina at Christmas last year